Examples:
You should probably head home now, shouldn't you? (No body does their 'shoulds'. for example how many times have you heard this 'I shouldn't really have another drink'? Yeah right!)
I've found that becoming interested (point to self) in new hobbies can be a great way to pass the time, haven't you?
It's easy to know who's right for you (point to self), isn't it?
Going on roller coasters can really get you excited, can't they?
I have a tendency to take risks I really shouldn't, don't you?
you'll know when you've met the right person for you (point to self), won't you?
This next one is extra sneaky and you won't find it in any NLP seduction book either.
Tell a story about a guy and a girl and how this girl strolled up to him and said 'you're going to feel really horny tonight, aren't you? Now immediately after saying 'aren't you' look at your listener and say a rather passive 'you know'. Similar to how you would say 'He's a real pain, you know'. So it's not a question but they'll nod any way. What they have effectively nodded to is this 'feel really horny tonight...you know' (lovely embedded command with cherry of a tag question on top).
I hope you enjoy and leave a few suggestions.
Great post. I've seen this in several MP3's in some varience and in one particluar it becomes a bit iritating so changing it up a little is more perferable to the listener. It's like saying "do you follow me" after every sentance. How anoying is that. So careful not to over do it.
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ReplyDeleteThis is brilliant. I really need some help re a command/tag. Have a special lady that may become permanent in my life.She lives a long way from me so most of our conversation is telephone-based. Can you give me some commands/tags that would convince her of me that are verbal only (no visual aids eg point to self). Cheers, Dave x